We as humans fail to understand points of view which are not influenced by our own experiences...We can't... that's just the way it is... Our experiences form us in various ways.. and if person A does not have the same life experience as person B, how can we understand where that person is "coming from"... I think ultimately, we have to understand that there are reasons why people behave the way they do and if they aren't hurting anyone, we shouldn't judge them because we can't ever know what our own behavior would be if we had the same life experience as they had.
Lastly, if we all had the exact same life experience... we still can't say the reactions would be the same for all people because after all, we are all individuals...
I don't know if you understood what I wrote above because we aren't in total disagreement...Or maybe I misunderstood your statement. My Portuguese is not the best...lol
I believe we have to be true to ourselves...If someone is hurt by someone being gay or bi-sexual for example... That is a problem that they have to deal with and it shouldn't be a guide for your life... That's why there is so much unhappiness in the world... People living their lives to please someone else while sacrificing their own happiness...
That's like saying that someone is offended by my green eyes... I'm not going to wear coloured contact lenses because you don't like the colour of my eyes...
Don't know if we're on the same page on this..
We have to respect others, but we have to respect ourselves first...
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(expectativas...só nos levam a mau porto...)
concordo para além do aparte...
We as humans fail to understand points of view which are not influenced by our own experiences...We can't... that's just the way it is... Our experiences form us in various ways.. and if person A does not have the same life experience as person B, how can we understand where that person is "coming from"... I think ultimately, we have to understand that there are reasons why people behave the way they do and if they aren't hurting anyone, we shouldn't judge them because we can't ever know what our own behavior would be if we had the same life experience as they had.
Lastly, if we all had the exact same life experience... we still can't say the reactions would be the same for all people because after all, we are all individuals...
não concordo na totalidade a questão por vezes vai em saber respeitar o outro...e o seu caminho de acordo...
O problema maior é tentar ser como somos sem magoar o outro e és sempre tu que sais magoada...esse para mim é que é o problema...
I don't know if you understood what I wrote above because we aren't in total disagreement...Or maybe I misunderstood your statement. My Portuguese is not the best...lol
I believe we have to be true to ourselves...If someone is hurt by someone being gay or bi-sexual for example... That is a problem that they have to deal with and it shouldn't be a guide for your life... That's why there is so much unhappiness in the world... People living their lives to please someone else while sacrificing their own happiness...
That's like saying that someone is offended by my green eyes... I'm not going to wear coloured contact lenses because you don't like the colour of my eyes...
Don't know if we're on the same page on this..
We have to respect others, but we have to respect ourselves first...
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